Join Sara and Anna this week as they talk about knowing what you want and how to ask for it!
Ask For It!
We talk a lot at The Sisters Enchanted about manifesting and bringing things into your life that you want today or in future years. But what exactly are you asking for? Do you ask for the things that YOU really want or really need?
So many of us find it hard to ask for things that we want for ourselves. We get so many questions in our Facebook groups, from our students and those participating in our free classes about what’s the thing that I should do to manifest? What crystal should I use to manifest money? When should I put my magical stuff out under the moon? Of course, we help and answer those questions, but the first thing you really need to do is ask for what you want and then go out there and get it.
What is your story around asking for things?
So many of us struggle with actually asking for what we want. As children, so many of us are taught to be good, sit still and not to make waves, shake things up, cause trouble, be loud and take up space. So, as adults, that’s exactly what we do. We don’t ask. We don’t know how to ask because of fear or lack of confidence, feeling shame after asking for things in the past, being shut down when you asked for something and were ignored. All of these things can cause blocks in being able to ask for the things you want. If you have all these stories around asking for things, then you have to work through them. Think about what you are afraid to ask for and why. You can change your stories and your mindset and learn how to ask for the things you want and deserve in life.
Changing your Story
Think and journal:
What have you asked for in the past?
What responses have you had in the past that make it hard for you to ask for the things you want now?
Then tell yourself:
You put yourself out there and that was big and worthy of celebration. You learned from this experience. You are strong, you are deserving, and you are so supported in asking again. Asking for something new. Asking from a fresh perspective, a fresh place of being.
You learned from the experience. You are strong, you are deserving. And you are going to ask again.
Now:
What do you want to ask for? What do you want to ask for that you have never asked for? Say it in your mind, speak it out loud to yourself, write it down.
Because now is your time to ask for it.
Spiritual tools, manifesting and asking for what you want?
Many of us find our way to crystals and tarot, yoga, meditation, the Moon – whatever your thing is. We see these things as a solution to the problem – to be able to manifest and ask for the things we want quietly and gently. All these things can help in lots of ways. But they are support tools. They cannot bring things to you without you doing the actual work of asking for what you want and making changes in your life to make it happen. They can help you to make these changes, such as to focus your mind, work on an intention through a Lunar Cycle, receive strength, confidence, a positive mindset, relaxation and all that good stuff. But you have to ask for what you want and work to get it as well!
You might do a money spell, or you might do a thirty-day chant, a yoga program or work on attracting more financial abundance through a Lunar Cycle. You might have a strong intention that you put into doing those things, but if you are not out there asking for exactly what you want of yourself and of then it is not going to happen because nobody knows what it is you want.
YOU are the most magical thing that you have. You need to ask for what you want. And you’ve got to stand in asking for it. And then use your tools to support you.
Asking in the right way
- Be specific about what you want and also about why you want it.
- Ask in good conscience. For example, don’t ask to borrow money if you are not actually going to use it for what you need it for and be sure that you have a plan to pay it back.
- Ask in moderation. You still have to be proactive in your own life to get what you ask for so you can’t be working to get everything at once. You can’t just ask for everything!
For example, if you want more money to replace a broken laptop. You can ask the universe for that money. You can try to conjure it up somehow. But then you need to think about what you really want. Do you want a job that supports you so that you don’t have to worry about the money to replace something? If you’re a business owner, do you want somebody to pay the prices that actually enable you to pay your bills and have money left for the things you need?
These are the things you need to ask for – the things you need and the things you want in order to get the money for the laptop.
Join us and ‘Ask For It!’
We are running a seven-week live group coaching experience called ‘Ask for It!’
You will choose something that you want to ask for and learn exactly how to ask for it. There will be lots of support and pep-talk and also giveaways along the way. There will be notes for you and magical intention setting practices infused throughout the seven weeks. It’s unlike anything we’ve ever done before here at The Sisters Enchanted and we don’t know if we’ll do it again so be sure not to miss out.
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